So how do you respond to someone who apparently doesn't think anything of you more than perhaps a beetle? Or maybe a little higher, but you get the point.
What do you do? Tonight has ended with me feeling how do I even exist for being such an asshole. I'll agree with flaws presented to me (perhaps dangerous to say; I might not agree if I don't feel that such an accusation is true). However, chances are, I know that I qualify for whatever negative quality I am accused of because I analyze myself on a daily basis.
I'm just not sure what to do.
You can focus on the people who think poorly of you, or those who hold you in the highest regard. I think you are a fabulous person, an amazing friend, and the only person who really understands me.
ReplyDeleteWe all have flaws, but if we focus on them it doesn't help. You can take criticism constructively and try and work on whatever flaws have been brought to your attention, but if you let them take over your view of yourself you'll just create more (self-loathing is not a very attractive quality).
In short, I love you and I'll kick this person ass!